Three people share the same thought.
"When we really see each other, we want to help each other." — Amanda Palmer, Ted Talks
“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves. And then, in that very moment when I love them.... I destroy them.” — Orson Scott Card, Ender's Game
And the third person is me.
Understanding is important. Love, trust and careness build on the strong basis of understanding. That is where connection begins.